Relationship Coaching in the Comfort of your Home

Relationship Coaching in the Comfort of your Home


Talk with a counselor in comfort from home.

Online counseling is easier and more convenient than seeing a therapist in person. You can keep your privacy and choose to remain anonymous. Nobody else needs to know. Save time and money, start feeling better. Work out what to do next in your life.

Online Counseling lets you choose from email, instant message chat, phone or webcam sessions with an experienced therapist. These sessions happen over the internet in the comfort of your own home or office by phone or Skype. You discuss anything that is important including finding direction or motivation, feeling happier and what to do about specific problems related to your relationships, thoughts or experiences.

You can access confidential online counseling from anywhere in the world. For more information on fees or to make a appointment contact us @ tantric1@live.com

Your privacy is important.

Online counseling lets you speak to a therapist from the comfort of your home or office, or anywhere in the world that your business takes you.

Phone or webcam session (60 minute sessions)

You can choose either webcam or voice only. At the first appointment you can discuss your expectations and how you came to be seeking counseling or therapy.

Instant chat (60 minute sessions)

Text based counseling. This is a good choice if you can type and prefer not to use the phone or webcam service. The Skype application will provide you with a text record of the session. I prefer the phone or Skype.

Email Exchange

Send an email of up to 1000 words. You will receive written reflections and questions to assist you. The main benefit of email counseling is that you decide when and how often you write.

About Dennis
working as a relationship counselor and Tantric Coach for 16 years and has worked extensively with Tantric Sex Coaching, Blogging, Radio Show, working with men, woman, straight or gay wishing to explore or celebrate bodies. Tantra literally means a "tool for expansion." Outlining for spiritual transformation. Learning highly orgasmic techniques for reaching new heights of sexual arousal & intimacy.

Dennis is considered a guru in relationship shifting that breaks traditional notions of what a couple should be. Men, Women that have denied their true sexuality in order to follow societal norm of the traditional marriage scenario are increasingly finding other options to “coming out”, families suffer collateral damage of lives that will forever be changed. Is there anyway to know my husband is gay? Support for the other man, gay husbands, straight spouse & wives of gay men. “Coming Out,” is not an event. It's a lifelong process of overcoming learned shame and increasing self-acceptance. I advocate that all gay men must strive to come out - fully. No one can truly be happy and thrive in the shame and secrecy of being in the closet - fully or partially.

Dennis Schleicher Best-Selling Author "Forbidden Love with a Married Man." and has been a support group counselor working with all kinds of Coming Out.

• Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship

• Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

• Developing a healthy Gay Relationship

• Erotic Foreplay and Massage

• Is He Gay? Straight, or Bisexual? What are You?

• Multiple Orgasms

• Sex to a Deeper Level, Peaking Together

Dennis’s approach has helped many and can help you to achieve the ultimate pleasures in your life.

He has been called the ultimate Tantric Sex coach that will become your must-read for every man, woman, straight, or gay wishing to explore, confirm or celebrate our bodies.

Dennis uses collaborative & narrative Therapy - practices influenced by the work many Doctors. He takes an interviewing approach instead of ‘advice-giving’. This model of therapy is gentle and respectful but has powerful results and to the point!!!

What Can Gay, Lesbian Bisexual & Transgender Counseling Do for You?


Do you need some support? Or are you wondering if you might be gay, lesbian or bisexual?


Talk online and keep your privacy secure. It’s confidential and easy.


Our Therapy takes a respectful approach to:


Questions about how or if to tell others about your sexuality


Could you come out to your wife or loved ones.


Relationship issues


Feeling better after a relationship ends - how to move on.


Bullying and harassment at work, or elsewhere


Loneliness, how to find or make friends


Concerns about internet use


Sex related problems, Tantric coaching


Wanting to feel happier with life and your relationship with your self.

Dennis has many years experience assisting other gay men, lesbians, bisexual people and others dealing with sexuality. Or if Dennis is not the one for you his years of working in coaching he can help you find the Therapists for you.

Be Safe-

Dennis Schleicher

Best Selling Author of; Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries & Support Group Counselor

Pick Straight or Gay, The “CHOICE”

Pick Straight or Gay, The “CHOICE”

One of the ongoing debates among humanity continues to be whether a person is born gay or becomes gay. I have men and women writing to me on a regular basis insisting that their husbands weren’t born gay—but rather “made” gay. They try to convince me that early sexual molestation in the formative years of life changes a man’s sexuality. Or they keep insisting that gay is a “choice”—like eating ice cream. Pick vanilla or chocolate—pick straight or gay. They can’t understand how a man who functioned for years as a straight man is now a gay man. Further, they can’t understand how a man with a loving family—wife, children, in-laws, and other extensions--would be willing to give up everything after 5, 10, 15, 20, 30 or more years for a sexual act. Or sometimes they will never make the “choice.” Could sex be that important to us all?

I know that we are born gay. It’s a tough stretch for me to believe that anyone can be “made” gay. No overbearing mother or distant father is enough to change someone’s sexuality. If that was the case, half the world would be gay—and that’s not the case. I don’t believe our husbands have any choice in being gay. If they had a choice, they would choose “straight.” They spend years trying to be straight which is why they marry us to start with. But the reality is that no more than we can make them gay, we can’t make them straight no matter what we do or how we try. It is what it is—a crazy, mixed up tragedy that creates lots of victims along the way. And you all know where I stand—gay is not a choice—being honest about it is a choice. That comes form my dear friend and author Bonnie Kaye @ www.GayHusbands.com.

Gay Fathers and Husbands of Ohio Support Group

If you’re a gay or bi-sexual man who has been in relationships with women – you’re not alone. Gay Fathers and Husbands understands … and maybe we can help each other.

You are not alone...we understand.

The Gay Fathers and Husbands group is an informal association of gay and bi-sexual men who may have in common current or past marriages or partnered relationships with women. Some individuals may have natural or adopted children from these relationships. Members of the Gay Fathers and Husbands group meet monthly to discuss issues and needs held in common, and to offer support to one another by sharing experiences, encouragement, and hope. Friends and supporters are normally welcome at the meetings, and guests may be invited to address special topics. The group determines the purpose and direction of meetings. Attendance will range from as few as 8 to as many as 30 or more. Meetings are casual – no dues. GFAH has been meeting in the Akron Area since 1990.

"Live your life so that your children can tell their  children that you not only stood for something wonderful-you acted on it." --Dan Zadra Gay Fathers & Husbands of Ohio
Our group attempts to:

• Provide a support and communications network for gay fathers;
  
• Encourage cooperative action in promoting the common interests of gay fathers and their families;
  
• Provide opportunities for social interaction between gay fathers, their children, and friends;
  
• Promote and sponsor activities that present a positive image of gay fathers and to encourage acceptance of alternative parenting.

Participants come from all over NE Ohio and Western PA. Members represent all ages, jobs, backgrounds and stages of life -- including young men with newborns to older men with grandchildren ... and some participants have no children. Some men are married or separated or divorced. GFAH is not a dating club or a religious group. Being "out" is not a requirement for participating at meetings, and all members agree to respect the privacy of individuals who attend the meetings.
"A Note from Dennis" Wow, I stumbled across ‘Gay Fathers & Husbands of Ohio’ on the Internet, when searching on Google. I wish every state had an organization like this to represent all the positive aspects of gay parenting. My dream is that in time, every state and county will have an organization like Gay Fathers of Ohio. All it takes is for one parent to have a dream and to be consistent. Please feel free to post your comments or visits; Gay Fathers & Husbands of Ohio 
Be safe,
Dennis Schleicher
Author of an explosives and controversial memoir; Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries
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photo is by Gay Fathers and Husbands of Ohio

Gay Husbands Are Proud Of Andy Cohen on Bravo

Gay Husbands Are Proud Of Andy Cohen on Bravo
The growing popularity of NBC's Bravo senior executives Andy Cohen is showing the men in my support group, that it's okay to be who you are. That it's okay to be truthful to your wives about your sexual orientation. I see this as the second round in the movement of gay husbands to 'come out' to their wives and loved ones. The first movement began with Queer Eye Fab 5, to follow BrokeBack Mountain. Now I'm seeing a surge in husbands wanting to come out of the closet and we owe much thanks to people like Andy Cohen and Jeff Lewis of Flipping Out.
"Watch What Happens Live, was envisioned as a 12-week test of a format that Bravo has long wanted: a live, topical talk show. The channel’s reality shows already generate “so much water cooler conversation,” Mr. Cohen said. Why not host some of that conversation on Bravo?
Great job, Andy, and thanks for making my Gay Husbands support group feel comfortable. To find out more on Andy Cohen, visit his blog at; http://www.bravotv.com/blogs/andys-blog or post your Comments;
Be safe,
Dennis Schleicher
Author of An Explosives and Controversial Memoir;
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries
Photo of Andy Cohen by The Advocate

Walt Disney Asked to Protect Ex-Gays

Disney Asked to Protect Ex-Gays
by Christopher Mangum
A Walt Disney Co. stockholder submitted a shareholder resolution asking the organization to include the protection of ex-gays in its sexual orientation nondiscrimination policy and diversity training programs.

"It is about time Disney treated ex-gays with the respect they deserve," said Bobbie Strobhar, the stockholder who submitted the shareholder resolution, reports Rueters. "Former homosexuals are true models of courage who have been vilified by gay activists."

The organization Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays (PFOX) has come out in support of the resolution.

"Disney's exclusion of ex-gays from its sexual orientation policy and programs reinforces the second-class status of ex-gays, and contributes to the negative perceptions and discrimination against former homosexuals," said Regina Griggs, executive director of PFOX, in a press release announcing the resolution.

"Former homosexuals who come out publicly are commonly targeted for ridicule and hate," added Griggs. "We need more of these resolutions nationwide to assure tolerance and safety in the workplace for the ex-gay community and their supporters."

The Walt Disney Co. has not yet acted upon the resolution. http://www.advocate.com/.

Post Your Comments!!!
Be Safe-
Dennis Schleicher

Gay Couples Drop In New Census Count

Gay Couples Drop In New Census Count
Census figures for the number of same-sex couples reporting in 2008 marked a 189,000 drop since 2007. by Kerry Eleveld
An estimated 564,743 same-sex couples reside in the United States, a nearly 25 percent drop from the 2007 estimate of 753,618, according to U.S. Census figures released Tuesday.Gary Gates, a demographer at UCLA’s The Williams Institute, attributed the sharp decline to more accurate reporting rather than a downward trend in the number of same-sex couples nationwide.
“The reason for that drop is that in past census data collection, there’s been a problem with the way they collected data,” said Gates, who is advising the Census Bureau on the matter. “The census for the first time is very seriously trying to approach how to count and describe same-sex couples.”
The change is consistent with a Williams Institute estimate earlier this year that about 30 percent of different-sex couples in 2007 might have been miscoded as same-sex married couples, which would have artificially inflated the total number of same-sex couples for that year.
The data also revealed that about 150,000 same-sex couples used the terms “husband” and “wife” to describe their partner -- well above the nearly 11,000 marriage licenses that have been distributed nationwide.
Gates estimated that somewhere between 30,000 to 35,000 legally married same-sex couples live in the country and said the disparity between his numbers and the 150,000 who reported using those designations probably has more to do with terminology.
“A large number of same-sex couples use the term ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ as a social construction rather than a legal definition of their relationship,” he said.This is the first time the Census Bureau has included same-sex couples in their formal release of data. In order to reduce miscoding, the data form has been restructured to work less like a butterfly ballot, which often confused people because they had to mark information boxes across the row for each person in their household. Now, an entirely separate page is simply dedicated to each household member.
According to Gates, some different-sex couples may have accidentally mis-checked the Male/Female box for their partner on the old forms. Since about 100 married different-sex couples exist for every one married same-sex couple, Gates explained, “even a really small error rate among different-sex couples created a big problem in the same-sex couple sample.”
Overall, Gates believes the nearly 565,000 same-sex couples in the newly released data does represent an undercount even if the information was collected more accurately.
“Even if we take away the problem of miscoding, there’s been a 20 percent increase in same-sex couples since 2000,” he said, which compares with about a 3 percent population increase and a 15 percent jump among different-sex unmarried couples in the same period. “I don’t think there's suddenly all these gay people who are coupling. I think that people are becoming more and more willing to identify, suggesting that there’s still this underlying group that are nervous about doing it.”
Even though census collection is completely anonymous, Gates hypothesized that some people in gay relationships are disinclined to report truthfully because they work in the military or as a clergy member, they may be divorcing or involved in a custody battle, or they might simply fear being stigmatized based on where they live.
In some cases, he added, people are simply befuddled by the fact that the federal government doesn’t recognize their relationship even if the state or city they live in does offer some form of civil union or domestic partnership.
“I think a lot of same-sex couples want to be accurate but there is some confusion about the way to do it,” he said. “The official Census Bureau line is, use the term that best describes your relationship. So if you think of a person as your spouse, then use that term.” Same-sex couples who have questions about how to report can get more information at www.ourfamiliescount.org .
The 2008 figures released Tuesday are part the American Community Survey conducted every year, but Gates says they preview what can be expected for 2009 as well as the once-a-decade Census survey in 2010.
In addition, the Census Bureau is now working on a project in 2010 that will more accurately count both legally married same-sex couples as well as those in civil unions and domestic partnerships.

Sexual Secrets of your Husbands

Sexual Secrets of your Husbands
By Dennis Schleicher
Are you a wife who knows their husband is keeping a secret? Can a real man confess the truth about his secret life? Telling the truth for the many men in my support group is often easer sad than done.
Forgiveness
If you are not willing to forgive you will be stuck in this mess for life. Even when you let go of your gay husband this process is powerful.
Being gay is not a mistake rather it’s the truth of your husbands natural sexuality.
Non-forgiveness will lead to being cold single person existents of miserable lessons to learn for life.
In any relationship contentious issues arise. When it comes to cheating, well, this may require many hours of counseling.
When I counsel x-wives there is a big fear of sex. {To find therapy in your area send Dennis an e-mail or post on this blog.}
Lying about an affair is often the norm. Not being faithful to your wife is both emotionally & physically draining.
When a wife catches you having an affair, her entire world as she knew it today, just fell apart. What makes this worse is when we lie about it. Yes it’s very easy for men to lie about their sins of lust. The honorable thing to do is to come clean and tell the truth.
Yes, you may and should lose your wife in the process if you still have sex with men. At least you did not continue to carry your lie.
When you cheat, be a real man and tell the truth to your wife and loved ones.
Be Safe,
Dennis Schleicher
Best Selling Author of; Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries by Dennis Schleicher
Recommended Therapist:
· Bonnie Kaye (215) 288-6959 http://www.gayhusbands.com/
· Angelo Pezzote (917) 673-5003 http://www.askangelo.com/ or http://www.askangelo.blogspot.com/
Both are best selling authors and available for phone sessions
The Gay Husband Checklist for Women Who Wonder by Bonnie Kaye
Bonnie Kaye's Straight Talk: A Collection of Her Best Newsletters About Gay Husbands
How I Made My Husband Gay: Myths About Straight Wives

Straight Acting: Gay Men, Masculinity and Finding True Love by Angelo Pezzote

WickedGayBlog.com: Provincetown’s first annual Restaurant Week ready to set sail!

WickedGayBlog.com: Provincetown’s first annual Restaurant Week ready to set sail!

Looking for More Gay Support Groups or Activities, Other Meetings

Looking for More Support Groups or Activities, Other Meetings
If the bar scene isn’t your thing, consider attending an LGBT group meeting. Many communities, even small towns that don’t have much catering to gays and lesbians, have gay reading groups, knitting circles, games night, AIDS or transgender support groups, or speaker series. If you don’t find information online, try your local library or Unitarian church. If there is a college or university in your area, ask a professor who teaches gay studies classes or advises the LGBT student group for suggestions.
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Pride in Gay Ownership; GLBT Owned Businesses is one the Rise. Is Now Our Time?

Pride in Ownership
Now is the Time to be Creative and Follow Your Financial Destiny

During These Uncertain economic times, large numbers of gays & lesbians have turned to their own devices to stabilize control over their financial future. While millions of mid- and upper-level corporate jobs are being eliminated, entrepreneurial growth is at an all-time high in 2009. The National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce estimates that there are in excess of 1.4-million GLBT-owned businesses in the U.S., and that number is rapidly growing. In an effort to promote gay entrepreneurship, the NGLCC has published a guide in conjunction with the HRC Foundation called “Small Business Basics – how Small Businesses Can Create Fair Workplaces for GLBT Employees.

So if you’re a gay entrepreneurial owner lets help support each other by posting your GLBT owned businesses & I'll link to your Blog or WebSite.

--Dennis Schleicher

Best Selling Author of “Forbidden Love with a Married Man”

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